I like sharing and reading life insights now and then too but yeah, the place where ppl post things is something us terminally onlines sometimes take too seriously.

I think there are a couple of mental health communities here where some ppl may appreciate this. I’d ask you to post it in the one I started but it’s in spanish and has little to no activity.

I’ve read this 3 times and still have no idea what you’re talking about.

I mean OK but communities are separated by topic so people don’t get stuff they’re not interested in on their feeds. This community is for questions (check rule 2).

What’s the question?

yes. they use ecorotation.

I think my brain just exploded.

I don’t know what to expect from lemmy anymore tbh.

Well, if he makes nana happy…

Umm…

idk about marrying but I’m in my early 40s and have long term dated a few mothers, some with kids in their late teens. In short, it entails responsibility and tact.

Being a recurring kinda-parental / adult figure in a kid’s life has an impact on their notion of what adults do, don’t do and what kind of adult they aspire to be. This entails responsibility. Forming any kind of meaningful bond then having it go away has an impact on anyone, but on children it can be harsher. If you have a heart you don’t mess around with a mother that you’re not really interested in and you should only meet their kids if you’re serious in wanting something stable/long term.

Basically It entails a lot of responsibility that you can either assume or risk making not only the mother’s, but some poor kids’ lives harder. If you don’t care about any of that, that’s up to you (but also, you’re an asshole).

Lots of wonderful women are mothers, though, and many are more than worth the extra care.

Some of us are still fighting in the replies.

No

Not even us chileans get Chile tbh.

just need a double check from the more reasonable parts of the internet

So where are you asking then?

He really does look like a pumpkin… Not that smashing though.

But he’s so smashing…