Not a parent but I read this and have my personal opinions, curious what others think about it.

  • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    Don’t have to deal with this anymore, because mine are all at least tweenage.

    It’s a balancing act, and sometimes running around a little is fine this day in this space, but not another day in a similar space.

    I’m not going to act like I’ve never given my kids an iPad to keep them quiet for a while, but it would be refreshing to see MORE kids playing trains and Hot Wheels instead of sitting in front of a screen.

    It’s much harder for the kids to create their own fun when a device just spews nonstop entertainment at then. Why use your own imagination, when there’s always someone else’s available to watch, play, listen to?

    There’s a HUGE gray area between “children should be silent and invisible” and “HOW DID YOU GET ON THE ROOF OF WALMART?!?”. Neither of those extremes are good, and sometimes, as parents we learn during or afterwards that maybe this wasn’t the best place to play Hot Wheels. But a lot of the time, it’s not hurting anyone.