• Madison420@lemmy.world
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    9 days ago

    That explanation requires prior knowledge or post hoc knowledge otherwise you’re simply saying it’s based on sex or race.

    How is this substantially different then screeching “dei” at every minority that mildly inconveniences you?

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      9 days ago

      I just gave you a behavioral definition with examples and non-examples. I’m sorry, I don’t know how else to simplify it. I can only assume you’re willfully not understanding. Have a good day.

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        9 days ago

        I’m sorry, I don’t know how else to simplify it.

        Maybe if you were a man, you could explain it better.

        /s

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          9 days ago

          Yeah because clearly seeking understanding means I’m a bigot and yes I see your /s and I’ll say that doesn’t make it much less of a shitty thing to imply.

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            9 days ago

            my /s was to show that this is the sad joke line someone would actually say like it was a truth. I’m on your side…

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              9 days ago

              I understand that I still don’t enjoy mean spirited comments shallowly veiled with a claim of sarcasm. Here especially if doesn’t help because I’m not trying to be mean I’m legitimately trying to figure out how people parse that distinction or on their heads because to me they’re the exact same bigoted trash.

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        9 days ago

        That’s a neat dodge. How is it different then assuming someone is a dei hire instead of simply an incompetent employee?