This guy is 38 and she was part of some chatroom and he started talking to her 13 year old little sister in a way that very obviously had ill intent. She called him out on this and posted screenshots of that chatroom online. Now ever since this, he has a site where he archives almost everything she says online. She made a post about how she prefers cats over dogs, then he archived that and posted the link to the archive on his site saying “never trust a dog hater with anything” and it just goes on, and on, and on for years.

When she even makes a passing mention about him, even if he’s not named or only vaguely mentioned, he chimes in, and posts a link to his site with some variation of “don’t trust her, she’s not to be trusted” and links to pages on his site which were all made by him over the years in an attempt to maliciously discredit her. It’s often a gish-gallop of links.

He also says that he’s made an account on every site he knows of, likely in an attempt at surveilling or intimidating her.

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    If he has uploaded photos of your friend from her social media to his site and she took those pictures, she could have a pathway towards DMCA striking his site down. Talk to a lawyer about it

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    Contact the registrar and host of the site. One or both will likely shut it down.

    Also contact the police as others have said.

    Send DM if you need assistance.

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    This is stalking. She could get a restraining order which includes interacting with her online content, so if he continued to repost it would be a violation of the order.

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      Also, start archiving the website in order to compile evidence for later. Don’t count on this person leaving the site up.

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    Have a detailed, copy-pasted reply with links ready to go. Every time he pops his head up anywhere, remind anybody watching that he is a known pedophile. Also, talk to a lawyer about the possibility his behavior might rise to the level of harassment.

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    I highly doubt a random website will get any traction. Why doesn’t she just make her social media private? Why hasn’t she blocked this random dude

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      She’s the victim here and shouldn’t need to do any of this.

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    There’s a solution to this.

    First, you turn off all the lights in your bathroom and close the door. And then you say"Lindsay Logan" (NOT LOHAN. IF YOU SAY LINDSAY LOHAN SHE WILL COME OUT OF THE MIRROR AND MAKR YOU DRINK VODKA UNTIL YOU DIE) three times, at exactly 3:33 a.m. if you do it right a school bus will hit the person and they will die of school bus smash.

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      She would normally, but he’s actively spreading misinformation about her, claiming this is “karma” for her spreading “misinformation” about him. She has fibromyalgia and he’s going around accusing her of faking it, and he’s also accused her of being a shoplifter because of what was extremely obviously a joke that was taken out of context

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        Nobody cares about what some random person says about some other random person. If she just stops stalking this guy stalking her, he’ll either get bored and move on, or, he’ll continue to waste his life posting insults that she’ll never read.