Me personally (am male), I feel like my dad is just more “chill” normally, but like feels kinda uninvolved, doesn’t really care deeply about kids too much…
My mother on the other hand… well… gets more involved with us, but swings between “lovely caring mother” to “tiger mom” like a pendulum… emotionally abusive… very confusing…
It’s like, my mom has “warmth”, but it’s as if the summer heat, and the fire gets out of control very quickly and it burns and it hurts when the fire does get out of control.
My dad is just like autumn or maybe spring, lacks “warmth”, but is otherwise the atmosphere is kinda “chilly” and you won’t get sunburned… most of the time.
I honestly don’t know… I don’t like getting burned by fires, but I’m also desparate for “warmth”.
Reposting my own answer from the old thread:
Me personally (am male), I feel like my dad is just more “chill” normally, but like feels kinda uninvolved, doesn’t really care deeply about kids too much…
My mother on the other hand… well… gets more involved with us, but swings between “lovely caring mother” to “tiger mom” like a pendulum… emotionally abusive… very confusing…
It’s like, my mom has “warmth”, but it’s as if the summer heat, and the fire gets out of control very quickly and it burns and it hurts when the fire does get out of control.
My dad is just like autumn or maybe spring, lacks “warmth”, but is otherwise the atmosphere is kinda “chilly” and you won’t get sunburned… most of the time.
I honestly don’t know… I don’t like getting burned by fires, but I’m also desparate for “warmth”.
So confusing…
Have you ever heard of love bombing?