Yea, when I couldn’t take it anymore and broke up with her. That helped. But no, nothing actually helped. I would tell her what I actually meant and she’d just ignore it and repeat the misunderstanding. When I called out that I’m telling her now how I actually feel and she’s just repeating the misunderstanding, she’d just completely ignore me.
Was there anything at all that helped?
Sounds frustratingly similar to something I’ve been dealing with.
Yea, when I couldn’t take it anymore and broke up with her. That helped. But no, nothing actually helped. I would tell her what I actually meant and she’d just ignore it and repeat the misunderstanding. When I called out that I’m telling her now how I actually feel and she’s just repeating the misunderstanding, she’d just completely ignore me.
Crucial Conversations and Sue Johnson’s book/workbook on conversations. Can’t recommend those enough. They’ve changed my life