「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」 | (aka: 鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma)@sh.itjust.works to Showerthoughts@lemmy.world · edit-213 hours agoI just realized there is not really a word for "cuddling" in Chinese Languages... probably a reflection of the lack of Public Display of Affection¹ in Chinese Culture... (¹and sometimes even at home)message-squaremessage-square5fedilinkarrow-up138arrow-down11file-text
arrow-up137arrow-down1message-squareI just realized there is not really a word for "cuddling" in Chinese Languages... probably a reflection of the lack of Public Display of Affection¹ in Chinese Culture... (¹and sometimes even at home)「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」 | (aka: 鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma)@sh.itjust.works to Showerthoughts@lemmy.world · edit-213 hours agomessage-square5fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareOnomatopoeia@lemmy.cafelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up14arrow-down1·edit-213 hours agoI dunno, I’ve never cuddled anyone in public. May just be a language difference without any underlying meaning.
minus-square「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」 | (aka: 鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma)@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down1·13 hours agoNo I mean like… I never saw my parents hug… never saw them kiss… not even at home. Don’t think they even have sex, I suspect the only two times they ever fucked was to procreate… to create my brother and me. Literally their room is open and I could just walk in, and as a kid I go sleep in their bed a lot. So no, they didn’t have sex, because if they did, I would’ve had accidentally barged in and saw it. Maybe this is why they argue a lot lol, lack of sex…
minus-squareGonzako@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 hours agoIs this something you can talk your parents about? They’re kinda the only ones that can answer why
I dunno, I’ve never cuddled anyone in public.
May just be a language difference without any underlying meaning.
No I mean like…
I never saw my parents hug… never saw them kiss… not even at home.
Don’t think they even have sex, I suspect the only two times they ever fucked was to procreate… to create my brother and me.
Literally their room is open and I could just walk in, and as a kid I go sleep in their bed a lot.
So no, they didn’t have sex, because if they did, I would’ve had accidentally barged in and saw it.
Maybe this is why they argue a lot lol, lack of sex…
Is this something you can talk your parents about? They’re kinda the only ones that can answer why