Last night I had a hookup for the first time. I told the guy I wanted him to use a condom, which offended him because he was like, “Why do I need to use one if you already have an IUD? Do you think I’m some STD-ridden guy?” I told him I just don’t know him that well. Either way it was fine in the end, he put it on and it was a fine night. Now I’m thinking, was I being a pushover?
It’s sad how little some men care about their own health in this regard. Even if a lot of STI are curable, you don’t want to spend a couple weeks with syphilis or gonorrhea while you take antibiotics.
A man who isn’t automatically wearing a condom with a first time hookup is one of those dumbasses who are the reason STI keep spreading in developed countries despite everyone being educated about them.