Last night I had a hookup for the first time. I told the guy I wanted him to use a condom, which offended him because he was like, “Why do I need to use one if you already have an IUD? Do you think I’m some STD-ridden guy?” I told him I just don’t know him that well. Either way it was fine in the end, he put it on and it was a fine night. Now I’m thinking, was I being a pushover?
It’s no where near over the top, that’s a very normal and good choice. Doesn’t matter what his feelings are, weather you had an IUD or even if it was some other reason. Use a condom, it’s there for a reason.