• SirEDCaLot@lemmy.today
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    1 hour ago

    Thing is- it’s the boomers that pushed things like the 21 to drink laws and the absurdly strict enforcement of them (like sending a parent to jail if their kid has a party).

    You guys spent a few decades decrying teenage drinking, making it hard for teens to drink. And now you all are shocked when kids do something else.

    Don’t forget- nicotine is 18+ not 21+. So chances are every high schooler has a friend or a sibling that can get them vapes.
    Vapes are small. Many don’t look like anything in particular to someone who doesn’t know what they are. And they are easy to hide, easy to conceal, easy to transport, AND easy to use throughout the day.
    So for a substance for kids to get into, it’s got a lot of advantages over alcohol.

    Plus which vaping is much more common to do alone. Kids are spending far less time on in-person social interactions now (probably because boomers flipped out over stranger danger).

  • CaptPretentious@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    Sadly, found out my niece has been getting blacked out drunk in college repeatedly. In one of the videos she showed me, she probably consumed more alcohol in a 5-second clip than I have in 2 years. Just a bottle of Tito’s, and she just chugged it.

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    5 hours ago

    Millennial here, been drinking heavy for 20+ years. Young generation missing out. But at the same time I respect the decision

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    9 hours ago

    Older Millennial here, they are right, too bad people my age didn’t get the memo. Never understood, even back in school, why getting plastered is celebrated.

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        4 hours ago

        That’s not going to make anything better though. You’ll just go down a path of addiction and self-destruction. Plus it’s expensive.

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      9 hours ago

      It’s a lot easier to get a place at the bar these days.

      One thing is, it’s harder to find a scene because most people stay home, but the people who do do out are out to meet people and have fun.

  • OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world
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    12 hours ago

    Yeah. I’m not a Boomer I’m GenX, but as I get older I come to realize - poisoning myself with alcohol is becoming more & more appealing. Life sucks.

  • SpiceDealer@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    11 hours ago

    The main reason I’ve decided to abstain from alcohol is because I’ve seen first-hand what alcoholism does to a person. I’ve don’t want to end like my dad.

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      5 hours ago

      Same! I’m Gen-X and promised myself at age 4 when I witnessed my dad was always stumbling into the house drunk & ill & scary, I have no desire to put any poison into my body. Still never have and never will.

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      10 hours ago

      If alcohol guarantees death at 60 like my alcoholic narcissistic pos dad, I think I’ll just keep drinking. Other drugs too because I’m not a fucking square like he was :). If you have someone (even if it’s just you) to protect from yourself, I completely understand. edit: shit, if you have another good reason, that’s cool too. I’m drunk.

  • BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
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    16 hours ago

    I’m middle aged, I’ve never smoked, at the most in my younger years I’d drink one glass of wine or cider or something like that a week. I don’t anymore, I have maybe 3 drinks a year tops now. It’s amazing to me how my parents’ generation is still alive because they smoked like fiends and drank buckets of rum and cokes on the weekends, and I’d say that they weren’t big drinkers compared to others.

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    22 hours ago

    You know its funny that caffeine and nicotine and alcohol and fake sugar all cause me serious health issues.

    I pray we stop putting caffeine in everything especially soda so I can enjoy it again.

    But honestly; Im fine drinking my caffeine free teas and fruit drinks and water though.

    Maybe I should see a doctor lol.

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    The piper is coming. No I’m not defending alcohol, but the level of drug addiction among our young people is shocking. The amount of digital addiction is shocking. I work in youth crisis so I am not talking on my ass, most young people are addicts now. So it’s all fun to talk down about boomers who drank but holy fuck is this generation ever screwed.

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      While what you seen is definitely real, it may not be as bad as what you see as you work in the field of youth crisis. You see it so often as that is your job and it can skew your findings to be more to the negative side as people that are not having those issues likely aren’t going to a youth crisis center and therefore are not around you. Again, it is very much a thing, but you do have some unintended bias as that is what you do for a living.

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        15 hours ago

        You are assuming that my experience is limited to youth crisis.

        I have 11 years of experience working in addiction,… My response to your cynicism is this… You can only truly understand the scope of the greater issues on all levels … And with all generations, once you’ve worked in the field. And it helps to have lived experience.

        Edit: oh yeah I know, I’ll up vote the uninformed opinion, and I’ll downvote the person who works in the field and is an educated and trained and expert /s

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    Not sure if boomers includes late forties but I quit drinking 4 or 5 years ago & went vegetarian.

    Best decisions of my life after marriage & having kids.