Moving on from what?
If you don’t know, then this question isn’t for you.
So it’s spam?
Something not being for you doesn’t mean it’s not for anyone.
This community isn’t “ask a fraction of lemmy,” it’s “ask lemmy.”
So it is, so the question remains, What’s stopping you from moving on?
Personally it’s starting all over but everyones situation is a little different.
From my question. What’s stopping you?
Yea, that is my thought too.
Replanning my whole future all over again without that person.
I’m sorry friend. It’s very, very hard. And rewarding. But hard.
poverty,trauma
Divorce in my country means I will basically never see my son again.
Trauma, really. Therapy helps, and time has as well, but yeah
Also, Psychedelics, for me.
Pain. Moving hurts. Not moving hurts. It hurts.
There’s a Cheeto chimp that’s hanging on to the edge of the sewer pipe that just won’t flush away.
$1800 lease breaking fee. It’s up in March and even that feels like it’s going to break my sanity. I’ll get there though.
My fucking broke down piece of crap car.
I need to find a decent job in the place I wanna move to. If you have something on this, lemme know!
This all depends on your area of expertise, but in general, I would say you either get to pick your job or pick where you live, not both. If it is a specialized type of work, you need to move to wherever they have positions. If you’re okay working retail, you can work anywhere.
I simply don’t won’t to carry on without them. There is more to it but that’s most of it. All I have are boxes of aches now.
Hey there. I’ve been there. It’s so hard and seems impossible, you’re completely right. My heart aches for you.
Take some time to grieve and start to get back to a routine, slowly expose yourself to people by going to a restaurant or aquarium. Reflect on how you can feel connected to the world again, think of what brings you joy and start to do it again. Or even, what you think would bring you joy and dip your foot in it. Go for a road trip to a nearby forest or mountain or piece of nature that you haven’t taken the time to visit yet. Breathe some fresh air daily. You can do this, you can move forward. You aren’t leaving them behind. Some days get easier and some don’t, but you can get through it.
This was a very neat experiment indeed! Even though I started it about mid-way on my grief period.
Every time I thought about the lady that left me, I clicked my clicker (the red line).We were together for 1-2 months. I recall it took 2-3 months to get over it.
Shame, ability, and demotivation, depending on what you’re asking about.
Fear and culturally defined gender roles
There are people who care about me and I can’t do that to them.
