• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    It’s expected because waiters can’t make minimum wage without it. It’s not defended because people like that waiters are paid so little, it’s defended because they’re paid so little and politicians, until now, have seemed to have no interest in changing that. Like so many things in this country, the people have to come up with a patchwork solution just to keep others alive because the politicians don’t care.

    So yes, I will defend tipping until this is fixed everywhere in the U.S. And I doubt it will be fixed any time soon. I’ll be surprised if it’s even fixed in these five states.

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      It has already become your culture, like it or not. Whether you tip or not, employer has to make up the different if the tip doesn’t add up to the minimum wage, so you’re essentially subsidising the employer as of now. Fixing the minimum wage will not get rid of tipping culture either, and exploitative employer knows that, so they will continue to pay the bare minimum and expect the customer to foot the bill.

      I wonder if everyone reaction will change if we change “Tipping” to “Subsidising”, because that’s what the current status quo are.

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        This hits the nail on the head. Exploitative employers will always only pay the absolute minimum they can get away with. If you’re going to have a federally mandated minimum wage, then that wage will need to be adjusted frequently.

        Has it been adjusted frequently?

        In my country we don’t have a minimum wage. Wage ranges are determined by the market and negotiations with unions. It gets really easy to figure out which employers do the bare minimum and which don’t.

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      10 months ago

      Tipping is still expected here in Washington where the minimum wage for tipped employees is the same.

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        Sure, because it’s easier to have the same policy everywhere than to not know whether or not you should be tipping depending on the state you’re in. I think that makes sense. Do you really want people from Washington going to Oregon and not tipping because they think they don’t have to?

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      So yes, I will defend tipping until this is fixed

      Can’t defend the status quo and expect things to be fixed, they’re mutually exclusive of each other. Human nature demands that.

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        10 months ago

        You absolutely can defend the status quo until things are fixed and work for things to be fixed. Maybe you think a change should come at the expense of waiters feeding themselves or their families. I do not.

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          You absolutely can defend the status quo until things are fixed and work for things to be fixed.

          It hasn’t so far, and human nature being what it is, makes it a safe bet that it won’t. Having said that, I hope I’m wrong.

          Also, its ethically wrong to put the onus on the customer to support the status quo, that’s the employer responsibility to take care of their employees in all ways, and an employees responsibility to not work for any boss that won’t do that.

          Maybe you think a change should come at the expense of waiters feeding themselves or their families. I do not.

          YES! Tortuuure them, make them SUUUFFEERRRRR!!1!!11!!! /s

          If the guy in the next stall asks me for a roll of toilet paper (because he’s out), I’m going to give him a roll, as a civic duty to take care of each other.

          If the guy in the next stall asks me to come over and wipe his ass for him, he’s on his own.

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            10 months ago

            That’s a lot of words to say you don’t give a shit if a waiter can’t afford to feed their kids as long as you don’t have to give them any of your money. I hope you don’t go to restaurants if you feel that way.

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              That’s a lot of words to say you don’t give a shit if a waiter can’t afford to feed their kids as long as you don’t have to give them any of your money. I hope you don’t go to restaurants if you feel that way.

              You’re being intellectually dishonest in asigning motive to me, via a strawman or otherwise, without knowing me.

              For the record, I do care, truly, but I also won’t be held hostage by corporations via my caring. Its ethically wrong.