I first joined Lemmy back during the big Reddit exodus of last year. I like many others wanted an alternative to Reddit, and I thought that this might’ve been the one. I made two accounts, one on lemmy.world and another on sh.itjust.works, in the June of last year that I used on and off for about 4 months.

At first Lemmy was exciting because it was so active. There were so many new users who were enthusiastic about turning this platform into a genuine alternative. There was a communal effort to create and interact with content, and for awhile it worked. Lemmy was truly interesting during the summer of last year. However, this stream of dedicated users started to slowly decline.

A lot of people hoped that if they were active, they would attract and retain more users to this place to the point where the community would foster interest specific communities like Reddit, but that never happened. After a few months, a lot of users lost interest and went back to Reddit where the userbase is so massive that there is an active community for just about anything.

With this reverse exodus back to Reddit, Lemmy ended up with the same groups that were active on it before hand: political extremists, tech nerds, privacy enthusiasts, and shitposters. To be fair, all these groups are larger now than they were a year ago, but that’s all this platform has to offer. If you’re into any of these things and primarly these things then Lemmy can be a good alternative to Reddit, but for the general masses? Lemmy is just not good.

For example, a NBA post on the NBA subreddit can get you thousands of interactions in a couple of hours. An NBA post on here will maybe get you a dozen over the course of a couple of days. The only content that will gain any traction here are tech news, political propaganda, and maybe some memes. I don’t see this changing any time soon. Even if Reddit implodes, I still think Lemmy will remain a niche platform. I think this evident by the fact that this platform hasn’t really progressed in a year.

  • Boozilla@lemmy.worldEnglish
    838·
    3 months ago

    Lemmy is missing:

    • Bots
    • Karma farmers
    • Ads
    • Insane mods
    • Fucking Spez

    You know you’re right, we’re nothing like reddit!!

      • marcos@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        3 months ago

        There’s an ecosystem of entire instances with crazy rules.

        The fact that Lemmy just doesn’t become unusable with all this brokerage tells a lot about the benefits of a distributed system.

    • jordanlund@lemmy.worldEnglish
      2·
      3 months ago

      I do kind of miss the private clubs. I had worked my way up through 100K, 150K, 200K and 300K karma clubs before I bailed and came here.

      Centennial Club was just the best. It was like Century Club, but way nicer!

    • Gorilladrums21@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      1015·
      3 months ago

      I mean Lemmy shares a lot of the same issues as Reddit even if it’s decentralized. I think Lemmy as a technology is better than Reddit because it’s more privacy focused, but most people don’t care about any of this. People put up with Reddit’s shortcomings because it has a massive community that is always active and fills every niche. Reddit’s daily active userbase is over 73 million. That’s hard to replicate in general, but I don’t see Lemmy getting anywhere near that mainstream. I see it as a more stable and active version of Voat, but still a niche platform nonetheless.

      • helenslunch@feddit.nlEnglish
        18·
        3 months ago

        Reddit didn’t get to 73 million overnight. It took them decades. Lemmy only gets 1 year?

        • Blaze@reddthat.comEnglish
          141·
          3 months ago

          Also, 73 million seems exaggerated, or that’s counting the bots

        • Gorilladrums21@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
          515·
          3 months ago

          It’s not bad, but niche is just that. For a platform to become a genuine alternative to Reddit, it needs to appeal to the mainstream.

          • tyler@programming.devEnglish
            91·
            3 months ago

            You do realize that’s why Reddit went down the shitter right? Appealing to the mainstream is literally what got us to the point that everything is filled with ads and misinformation.

    • KazuchijouNo@lemy.lolEnglish
      10·
      3 months ago

      I completely agree with you there, Lemmy is its own thing. People are nice and respectful, communities are more constructive and less competitive, mods actually like what they’re doing; the “vibe” is completely different here. No karma or awards incentives, pure cooperation and real social interactions.

      We’re open source! open hearts and open arms!

  • MikeOToxin@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3511·
    3 months ago

    But why do you care about engagement with your online posts? Is your opinion that important? Or is it just your need for external validation from the faceless masses?

    Either way, some introspection may be good here.

    Or, ya know, just go back to reddit, whatever dude.

  • morphballganon@lemmy.worldEnglish
    201·
    3 months ago

    You are entitled to delete your Lemmy app of choice and return to the corporate-approved Reddit™ content-consumption experience.

  • zecg@lemmy.worldEnglish
    19·
    3 months ago

    I thought I liked it and that it had enough users, thank you for setting me straight.

  • KazuchijouNo@lemy.lolEnglish
    19·
    3 months ago

    You might be right, Lemmy is not for the masses… I would consider myself a tech nerd, privacy enthusiast and shitposter; so migrating from Reddit was the best thing to ever happen to me. This place feels like a real home where I can share my interests with people who are incredibly helpful, kind and passionate about what they do. This place is a heaven for people trying to escape corporate and mass media. And I agree with you, Lemmy is a failed Reddit alternative, because it’s not a Reddit alternative, I don’t see it like that anymore. People here are genuine, I love that <3

    • Today@lemmy.worldEnglish
      11·
      3 months ago

      Not a tech nerd or privacy enthusiast -just an old mom who occasionally shitcomments. I like it here.

    • land@lemmy.mlEnglish
      3·
      3 months ago

      Exactly. On Reddit you get roasted for asking a simple question like wtf. Lemmy is the way.

    • deafboy@lemmy.worldEnglish
      11·
      3 months ago

      Being mainstream is exactly what I liked about reddit. It was the reincarnation of usenet. It has attracted all kinds of people doing all kinds of thing. Are you interested in swastika knitting? Piano jumping? Bathsponge sculpting? You can sure as hell find at least 2 other guys already doing it there.

  • Rooki@lemmy.worldEnglish
    151·
    3 months ago

    Could i ask how can you be one of the reddit exodus users if your account is 2 days old?

    If you wanna leave lemmy do it on your main account to proof you are one of the over a year old accounts.

    That we can salute and press F to the fallen user.

  • over_clox@lemmy.worldEnglish
    132·
    3 months ago

    If you don’t like Lemmy, you already know where to go. Enjoy Spez, the ads, the selling of your data to train AI, etc…

  • rrrurboatlibad@lemdro.idEnglish
    10·
    3 months ago

    Meh, it works for me. I like it here more than reddit. Sorry that you haven’t found your groove. It toom me a while of finding the right things to subscribe and right folks to follow before my feed felt fun and interesting. I use Lemmy as a jumping off point for rabbit holes that are interesting to me

  • jimmydoreisalefty@lemmy.worldEnglish
    7·
    3 months ago

    Change is not easy, it takes time and people willing to help foster that new change.

    I am one of those people that is really into politics, but I try to interact with other communities once in a while!

    It is an election year, so politics is always in an all time high on any forums and social media.

    I suggest, if you are willing, to step up your game and be really active in the communites you would like to see flourish.

    It may be lonely, but it tends to be when starting new things!

    We are all trying the best we can, when we can, I give props to the lemmyverse and fediverse for all they do!

    Thanks for posting, even if you used a burner account!

    • Gorilladrums21@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      33·
      3 months ago

      That’s kind of the point that I was making. This platform has little to offer outside a outside of politics, tech, and shitposting. Most of the active users are here for these specific topics, which is fine, but this places Lemmy as a niche platform not one that appeals the masses. A few dedicated people can’t foster a genuine community out of sheer enthusiasm. If that was the case then Lemmy would’ve regressed after the influx of last summer. You could be right, maybe people like you will lead this platform to grow into something more in a few years. I just don’t personally see that happening.

      • jimmydoreisalefty@lemmy.worldEnglish
        21·
        3 months ago

        Thanks for clarifying and going further into explaining your views to us!

        Some people can be seen as being a dreamer[1], I see myself as such a person, I try to stay hopeful, I see it as a much more positive way of living in the world; as well as much healthier for our mental health

        Lemmy as a niche platform not one that appeals the masses

        Yes, Lemmy is currently a niche platform, but that is how many start off, it takes time and much effort to grow a community.

        It is similar to grassroots movements, where people that are leaders or learn to become one are willing to speak with anyone for a cause they feel strongly about, and they start to grow slowly.

        I see lemmy in that phase or light, where most activity will be from people that are willing to throw themselves out there and share their favorite hobbies and put in the energy to interact with strangers (whether it may be apositive or negative interaction is another thing).

        It takes time for people to come out of their shells and to start being active on forums as well, hopefully in Lemmy we give people that opportunity to grow as people and to take chances to meet and discuss any topic with strangers.

        A few dedicated people can’t foster a genuine community out of sheer enthusiasm.

        Well, it takes a few to start something new, in my eyes all important causes and projects start with a few people just having fun or putting the time to create something new.

        To accomplish anything in life, it will take time and a lot of energy and people willing to do that.

        I just don’t personally see that happening.

        It is okay to see the world in that way, but just putting a bit of effort into sharing or creating a community that you like, will help improve the community.

        Activity would increase, if you create a community or decide to share more of your hobbies and opinions within those communities.

        If the communities would be liked by Lemmurs or not, it is another matter, but in the end of the day we all have our own way of seeing the world and we can have discussions with people that are willing to share their views as well.

        The only way we can continue to grow as people, is by forcing ourselves to push against our own bias and to keep talking with people that do not think or agree with what we have to say.

        [1] Supertramp - Dreamer [03:31] https://youtu.be/B885n08hOmw

        Much text to read, here is a Lemmur for a fun pic: