• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    10 days ago

    I am 51 now but in 2018, while still in my forties, I had to have multiple major emergency heart surgeries. I was hospitalized for a week and bed ridden for about a month altogether. During that time, all I had for entertainment was my PS Vita. I decided to buy and play Persona 4 Golden blind and I spent those weeks drifting in and out of consciousness while making friends, fighting monsters and hanging out with high school students in that make believe world instead of focusing on my near death experience or the possibility of financial ruin thanks to medical bills.

    I will never judge anybody that is moved by or comforted by things like anime or JRPGs. I get it.

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        I will always be grateful to that hospital. I was expecting to owe $300k+, it turns out the total bill over $550k, but the hospital fought with the insurance company and got them to pay for most of it leaving me with a balance due of $10k. When I called to set up a payment plan, the lady on the other end said that they would forgive all but $996. I paid it and as soon as I hung up, I was sobbing. $550,000. What is the point of surviving if you are going to spend the rest of your life slaving away to pay off you’re debt.

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          This is heartbreaking. I can’t even imagine how awful it must’ve been for you during that time, not knowing if surviving was even worth it (in a broader sense).

          Thinking back, if I would’ve had to think about that too during my chemotherapy 8 years ago (was 24 back then) I don’t know if I would’ve survived. That, or I would’ve become a criminal afterwards as I was still fighting with trauma as well; it would’ve probably pushed me over the line of being convinced the world was inherently evil.

          It’s good you found something to distract you from all that suffering and happened to be put in such a great, great hospital. Hope you found back to full health.

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    10 days ago

    The guys be like, “I play Yakuza for the gritty depiction of organized crime”, and then spend 12 hours giving women makeovers in the cabaret club minigame.

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    way worse when it’s a fucking banger of a love story but they’re middle schoolers for some goddamn reason

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    10 days ago

    Can they, for once, be college students or maybe high-school seniors?

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      It’s unnecessarily limiting the audience. High school is relatable because everyone does it. Not everyone goes to college or works in such and such field.

      When it comes to the human experience, we start to diverge pretty early.

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        Internets says that 61% of the Japanese population go on to higher education. That’s pretty high compared to Americans at 39%.

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          US is actually in range of 60%. Apparently 62% of high school graduates enrolled last year. Although that’s graduates and not all people graduate, but also some people do go back later in life too.

          I think the real issue is that college doesn’t look the same to everyone. You may commute, do part time, different majors. However, middle/high school are a bit more uniform so the tropes/trends will resonate with most people.

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      9 days ago

      they can be but then the MC is a 40 year old office worker while she has a troubled past and daddy issues

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    my personal rule is that, now that i’m an adult, i will generally not watch or read anything where the main characters are high schoolers. it has served me well

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    Ugh I get such feels from those shows quintessential quintuplets had me openly crying…

    Why can’t real life dating be even remotely like that.

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    [dropkicks a man through a fourth-story window]

    “I’ve never killed anyone in my life.”

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    Shut up. I dont need your judgement just because nothing happens in 200 chapters of Akutsu san

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      Same thing with One Piece. They had this great opportunity to deeply explore Kuma’s and Zoro’s values in the end of thriller bark, instead nothing happened.