“Boop.”

But also, I think similarly for commenting online.
90% of the time, I type out a comment, only to hit cancel and move on. It’s surprisingly cathartic.

I read some piece of advice a while back (on lemmy I think) about when to talk, “Does it need said? Does it need said right now? Does it need said by you?” and it really stuck with me.

I’m definitely a talker, and my friends and family will talk all day. But I know my partner can find it a bit much, so having a basic rule has been surprisingly helpful. I might want to tell him about the intresting thing that I read, but does he really want to hear that? We might need to talk about something important but stressful, maybe bringing it up just before bed isn’t the best idea?

It is all pretty obvious stuff, but I spent three decades only really spending time with people who talked all the time too. I didn’t need to worry about bringing something up at the wrong time, because if I did, they would immediately say “oh I don’t want to talk about that because…” and explain or change the subject. I didn’t worry about a conversation being uninteresting, because if it was we’d quickly tangent into something that worked for us both.

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That’s why I stfu in public.

Improve it for who?

I just saw your post during a meeting and I’m about to apply this mantra now

Yes, but what is an improvement if silence. If I want to gossip about neighbour a with neighbour b, is that better than silence? It is to my mom.

A fart is the wind is better than a fart with the windows closed -Buddha (or something idk)

This reads like it belongs to a facebook or linkedin post.

“Silence 2: This Time It’s Quieter”?

Is that anything?

This is how arrogant and pretentious people act when on their high horses. Censor yourself and leave others out of it.

If you meet a great swordsman, show him your sword.

If you meet a man who is not a great poet, remain silent.