Please don’t tell me “see a therapist” I know that already.

  • onionguy@lemmy.world
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    Sounds like your mom wanted a little slave to obey her and instead got a human child with an individual character that wants to be loved and live free. Well, people do that a lot. Try to get away from there. Focus on what you’re good at, train your skills try to stand on your own feet and make a life and a living of your own. Then you can start living independently and get away from people with such cold hearted inhumane points of view.

    (Only productive people’s live are valuable, seriously? That is just social-darwinist garbage… In my country there used to be a asshole with a funny beard who propagated this point of view a lot and he ended up shooting himself in a berlin bunker in '45)

    Every child deserves unconditional love from their parents. It is their decision to set a child in this world not the child’s. The child owes nothing to their parents. They’re human beings not little slave servant puppets. Be aware that you’re no longer the helpless child. You’re an adult now. Help yourself and be the kind of parent to yourself your mother never was able to be. And you’ll find people who care and love you for who you are and not only for your productivity.