• Wren@lemmy.today
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    My mom went to university at 30, passed the bar, became a lawyer, had beef with the provincial court, passed the bar in the next province over at 50 out of spite and commutes across the border to practice law in a different province.

    She wants to help people navigate immigration court and represent them for free after she retires.

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      As someone who relates to the people she wants to represent, please tell her that not only does she rock but, she’s also a bonafide legend! 🖖💪

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        I will and I support her completely in this.

        She’s always had the opinion that immigration and border control have way too much power to make snap judgements and send people packing without informing them of their rights.

        She’s not even an immigration lawyer, she’s going to learn a whole legal framework after retirement just to stick it to the man.

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          Your Mom is good fuckin’ people. World needs a lot more like her. 💛

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      There’s a fair number of lawyers in northern Ontario who also do a lot of work in Manitoba. Winnipeg to Kenora is something around a 2 hour drive.

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    It’s both. “It’s too late” for marketing yourself to capitalism. But it’s never too late to better yourself for yourself

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    Friend of mine could afford to retire early at 55. Did much of nothing for a few years. Then one day, he decided to go back to school. He’s now well on his way to a PhD in a completely unrelated field. He says it made him excited about life again.

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      That’s honestly what I would do if I could retire early, just go back to uni to study something that catches my fancy

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    This gives me hopes that I too some day…

    …will be able to sue several companies into bankrupcy, and then keep going.

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      Now that I’m in my 40s with small group insurance, I, too, am more focused on the 63 year old who wants to go after big pharma than I am on some faulty idea of youth. Godspeed, my friend.

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    Reject society’s creepy pedophilic obsession with youth. Embrace personal growth at all stages of life. We’re all works in progress.

    If you’re not learning and growing then you’re already dead.

    *edit

    Me: positive message encouraging personal growth.

    Lemmy: I want to pedantically argue with you about the dictionary definition of “pedophilic”.

    Ok guys lol focusing on the real stuff huh?

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      Jesus fucking Christ, not everything is pedophilia. I’m starting to think that society is more obsessed with pedophilia that pedophiles are obsessed with children.

      I apologize in advance - I don’t mean to jump down your throat. It just seems like there is an unhealthy tendency to label things we don’t like as pedophilic.

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      It’s not pedophilia if they don’t want to fuck kids but are obsessed with youth and/or wanting to be young. Most of advertising is built around “it’s fun to be young” and “youth and beauty”. Capitalism as monetized envy. Make the people with money want the thing they can’t buy.

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        And the pedophilia is the root of it. Slowly, with small steps to youth and younger and younger. Women’s bodys must look like undeveloped, prepubety girl- slim , without hair on body and don’t let me start about being innocent and pure.

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    lol. I’m close to 29 and I haven’t even started yet. Been stuck since I got out of uni. Do what you want. These days anyways it’s not like you have the option not to have multiple careers anyways.

    I don’t have much hope for retirement. I just know it’s gonna be hell finding a job whenever shit gets fucked up by gestures broadly at everything

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    Look, just sit down and stop doing anything. What’s the point of moving your body around after 20? It’s all just flailing limbs and jiggling fat.

    What are you gonna do, huh? Take up a hobby? Learn something? Improve humanity? Yea right, you won’t do a goddamned thing. Lay down, accept the inexorable entropy of the universe, and submit to those who are slightly more able to exert power over our pathetic and meaningless existence.

    What’s that? The complexity of emergence is an impossibly rare gift wasted on the few and the ignorant? NO OF COURSE NOT! Eat some more Pop Tarts and watch another Sitcom you fat disgusting fuck!

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    Realistically, the problem isn’t “starting over”.

    The problem is if you are taking the advice of random internet strangers seriously for advice on complicated and highly subjective questions like that.

    Do random internet strangers sometimes give good advice? Sure. But for these types of questions it’s usually more by accident than anything.

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    you can do whatever you want–you just have to be willing to pay the price. even someone living check-to-check could go back to school if they were willing to work 20 hours a day and possibly live in their car.

    …just at the hope of having a house in the suburbs lol.

    here’s my perspective as an old man: unless you have enough money to NOT WORK for the rest of your life or are on the track to retire much earlier than 65, you don’t really have shit. at least nothing worth feeling superior about.

    you do however have dreams and passions that could possibly be fulfilled despite your financial situation.

    the person in the OPs story is just driven by justice and possibly revenge. but it’s not as big a deal if you frame it like that.

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      unless you have enough money to NOT WORK for the rest of your life or are on the track to retire much earlier than 65, you don’t really have shit. at least nothing worth feeling superior about.

      I don’t even think this is worth feeling superior about. You have a lot of money? So what?

      I know plenty of people who are retiring and feel empty since they did nothing but make money.

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    I like this so much. Very inspiring and motivating. It’s almost never too late to get shit done, live your life and fulfilling your dreams. :)