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    Owasso PD spokesperson Nick Boatman told The Independent that police were awaiting the results of toxicology and autopsy reports from the Oklahoma Medical Examiner’s Office before determining whether anyone will be charged.

    Ofc cops want a toxicology report on the victim instead of testing the perpetrators.

    ACAB

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      To be fair, according to the article, the victim collapsed and stopped breathing the day after the altercation, probably leading them to believe they might have taken some substance subs then that could’ve caused this.

      I don’t think it’s unreasonable to do a toxicology test.

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          Doing a tox screen on Nex’s body is reasonable, if only to eliminate a theory a defense attorney would try to argue to a jury. Waiting for the results of that tox screen to decide whether or not a crime took place and start making arrests when we already have plenty of evidence to say that they were assaulted and it’s only unclear whether that assault was the cause of their death is what doesn’t make any sense.

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          This would infer the hospital missed a brain bleed/concussion/or some other head trauma. There’s also no info about the fight or who started it or anything else, but I’d imagine a toxicology report would be done on any 16 year old that dropped dead for nearly any unknown reason.

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    THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE TO ARM UP AND BE SEEN READY TO FIGHT

    These people know you’re a doormat and a pushover.

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      This isn’t “Christianity”. And that’s not to defend the religion, but it is just one head of this Hydra, not the core of the problem. People in power are using hate and fear in whatever medium they can to consolidate and increase that power, casualties be damned.

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          They all just happen to be religious by coincidence.

          Religion is the tool, not the motive.

          There are those that practice their faith the way it should be practiced, without causing harm to others.

          And then there are others who want power, and will use the tool to manipulate others, to get that power.

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              But there’s a reason why the tool is always religion

              You’d be foolish to think that that is the only tool available for people to manipulate others with.

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                  No one is saying that it is.

                  I was responding to a comment from someone else, and not from you…

                  But there’s a reason why the tool is always religion

                  If it’s always religion then it can’t be anything else, right? So that person was indirectly stating that’s the only tool, and I was pointing out that there’s multiple ways of manipulating others, besides religion.

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            There are those that practice their faith the way it should be practiced, without causing harm to others.

            Tell me the Bible passage that says that.

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              There are those that practice their faith the way it should be practiced, without causing harm to others.

              Tell me the Bible passage that says that.

              Because people are just their books, and have no free will of their own.

              You point to me in the New Testament where Jesus himself advocates violence and harm to innocents, and then we can have a conversation.

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                Because people are just their books, and have no free will of their own.

                Very well. In that case I want a citation. How did you determine the “right” way and why is everyone else wrong?

                You point to me in the New Testament where Jesus himself advocates violence and harm, and then we can have a conversation.

                I already did this in this thread. Come on some level of effort on your point. He does it repeatedly! He talks about how he will be the future king and his enemies will be butchered then sent to hell. He makes a woman beg at his feet while calling herself a racial slur before he helps her kid. He rebukes a man with leprosy for having leprosy. He tells people to give up all means of support and their own families just to follow him.

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                  Very well. In that case I want a citation. How did you determine the “right” way and why is everyone else wrong?

                  You’re being intellectually dishonest to suggest that I’m saying everyone else is wrong, as the point I’m trying to make is not that at all, that you can’t judge a whole people based on what their religion is, as people have free will and follow there religion to their modern worldview, and see what are you with me not just what ancient text stated verbaten.

                  As far as how I determine what the right way is, I do it via The Golden Rule. Do onto to others, as you would have others do unto you. Basically, what Jesus taught at a summary level. Be kind of others, don’t harm them help where you can, etc.

                  And for the record, I’m not a Christian, just in case you think you’re arguing against one.

                  I would love to have a Christian scholar review what you’re saying, especially the quotes that you’re stating are coming from Jesus, for factuality.

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          Where did I say it wasn’t part of the problem? I said the exact opposite, in fact.

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        This is exactly Christianity. Their book tells them to act this way and their shamans have been screaming for this conduct for twenty centuries. Every single Christian I have dealt with is about one bad day away from doing this and why shouldn’t they? The have skydaddy telling them that they will be forgiven for everything and that it is a good thing to oppress the LGBT.

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          Again, I’m not defending the religion, just saying that blaming one thing here is missing the mountain of other contributing factors. If we erased christianity and every other religion you want gone from the world, the hate and fear would still be there, as would the people manipulating that to benefit themselves.

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            If cancer were cured tomorrow people would still die eventually, but I would rather live in a world without cancer than one with it.

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              Great metaphor, actually, since cancer is most often caused or exacerbated by something else. But you’re still missing my point by a mile. Keeping going after the symptom rather than the sickness, I guess. I’m sure that’ll solve everything.

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                I got your point. You refuse to address the issue and instead want us all to wander around in circles finding “deeper” reasons.

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                I don’t mean to be disrespectful to those who you are replying to, but are you sure those are even regular people you’re talking to, and not bots?

                Either they’re very fanatical and can’t see outside of their box, or they’re being intellectually dishonest in how they respond to you, seeming to miss your point that’s being expressed very well and straightforward.

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                  Eh, I don’t think so. People (understandably) hyper-focus on religion, and Christianity in particular, and the terrible things done under them, and it can be hard to get them to view the larger scope of the situation.

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                  Nope human. Got meat organs and everything. I love how the only defense of religion is to personally attack the guy calling out what it does

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          This is exactly Christianity. Their book tells them to act this way and their shamans have been screaming for this conduct for twenty centuries.

          Granted, I missed Jesus’s sermon on the hill, but I’m sure I would have heard something about him okaying bullying and killing good people just because they’re different.

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            He replied, “It is not right to take the children’s bread and toss it to the dogs.”

            then comes the end, when He hands over the kingdom to the God and Father, when He has abolished all rule and all authority and power. For He must reign until He has put all His enemies under His feet.

            The Lord said to my Lord, "Sit at My right hand, Until I make Your enemies a footstool for Your feet.”’

            But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them—bring them here and kill them in front of me.’

            The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will gather out of his kingdom all causes of sin and all law-breakers, and throw them into the fiery furnace. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth

            Whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire

            The master of that servant will come on a day when he does not expect him and at an hour he does not know and will cut him in pieces and put him with the hypocrites. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth

            He is now the judge of a sinful world, and on His head is the crown of the sole ruler of earth. On His robe, dipped in blood, and on His thigh is written, “King of kings and Lord of lords,” and no one alive doesn’t tremble at the sight of Him.

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        You know, I’ve been noticing more and more that lemmy has a bunch of people who just fuckin hate religion straight up, edgy 2010’s reddit atheism style. I don’t necessarily disagree with a lot of their criticisms, but it has gotten kind of annoying seeing people attribute these clearly complex and incentive driven behaviors to something so broad, so old, and so vague.

        It seems pretty obvious to me personally that conservatives have kind of given up on contesting civil rights and gay rights as a means to differentiate themselves from the other neoliberals, since those issues remain pretty deeply unpopular to contest, and are moving to this as sort of the next thing in their playbook, the next highest profile minority that they can easily lambast on nightly news. All while they try to roll back those other issues through every possible angle they might be able to work in local, state, and federal government.

        That’s even a pretty big oversimplification of the issue, and the different forces involved, right, like it’s not really tied into why or how specifically they’re doing that, right, but it’s really stupid to even have that surface level understanding, and still bump up against people insisting that it’s more singularly some other driving, evil force. As though you couldn’t, were you to analyze christianity, split such a thing up into another whole litany of forces, another whole network of relations, causes and effects.

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          It says right in the Bible that being LGBT is a sin worthy of being sent to hell and that Jesus wants his enemies killed. Do you need me to quote chapter and verse?

          Hey you know what? I fully admit I am an angry atheist. That means I say mean little things sometimes. You know what I don’t do? I don’t beat a trans kid to death inside a school bathroom, I don’t commit war crimes, and I dont descrate cultural sites.

          You really want to both sides this? You really want to compare a few mean little comments to beating a child to death?

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    I can’t imagine – don’t want to imagine losing a child. I had no idea until I had a kid but… Nothing in the universe matters more to me than my kid and I would be destroyed forever if anything ever happened.

    To lose a kid (very likely) due to bullying? I can’t imagine the blind rage mixed in with the universe shattering grief.

    What sick fucked world do we live in where school bullying turns into violence that turns into death? Just for being different from most? Jesus Christ. These psychopaths should be in jail getting intensive therapy to try to unfuck their twisted minds.

    This child could have lived a full life but instead because of fearful, hateful monsters, the kid is dead.

    Fuck Oklahoma and fuck this school and the parents of the murderers.

    It’s only going to get worse if Trump gets back in power. As if it isn’t bad enough now.

    Boy, girl, non binary, whatever WHO GIVES A FUCKING SHIT?! Mind your own goddamn business and don’t be a fucking evil piece of shit. Let people fucking exist as they are.

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      My biggest fear is to outlive my daughter. And since she’s queer (not trans, but queer), I worry about her being assaulted or even killed because of it, especially as people like Trump foster bigotry. Also, one of her closest friends is trans and I’m very worried about him. I know he’s being bullied in school and he already has self-harm issues. Thankfully, his parents support his transition, but he’s still not getting the support he needs and the school makes him use the girls bathroom and locker room. I hope he makes it through school okay. He’s only 12 and he’s already cutting himself, vaping and smoking weed.

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        I hope he finds the strength to get through this. Besides support from his family and having supportive friends, which no one should take for granted, there’s overcoming the bullying and finally, the hardest of all, the inner conflict. Topple this with puberty’s own ordeal, so everything gets even more confusing. But it’s also the one task, that drops the most loot, if you solve it. There’s nothing more rewarding than feeling inner peace, love yourself and coming of age strong and prosperous.

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          I do too. So much. I wish I could do something to help him, but I’ve only met him one time. I know the school he’s in is utter shit. We pulled my daughter out and put her in online school because of how much she was bullied. The administration actually made her apologize to her bullies after they doxxed her on Discord and prank called her repeatedly. Fuck that school. If I could get her friend to do online school with her, I’d drive him to my house every day just to keep him away from that shit. I really wish I could.

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                Do you think you’d be able to talk to them about it? If his parents are supportive, maybe they’d be receptive to online school too.

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                  I wouldn’t even know how to get in touch with them. My daughter sure wouldn’t give me the details. She’s very closed about that sort of thing. I don’t even know his last name.

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      What sick fucked world do we live in where school bullying turns into violence that turns into death?

      It probably happens more often than you think. Without the nonbinary angle and excuse to invoke bathroom bills this wouldn’t have got nearly the attention that it did. In the US, most bullying related deaths are suicide and a couple hundred thousand kids get physically attacked by fellow students every year in addition (most recent number I’d found was a few years old and around 288k). If you piece together the various statistics, an estimate of around 3500 kids per year dying to bullying-related suicide is probably reasonable. Bullying-related homicide is harder to get a decent number on, but it’s probably significantly lower.

      That they can say the autopsy showed CoD was not trauma from the attack but were awaiting toxicology and other ancillary results before naming an official CoD makes me curious if they suspect CoD is overdose and are waiting for results to confirm. I guess we’ll see when the report is finished.

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    How’s protecting those kids by putting them in danger going?

    Oh - a kid you wanted to kill us dead - all part of the plan.

    These lawmakers are knowingly lying for personal gain, and to kill those they don’t like - including kids. They’re fucking demons, and their supporters are either as bad, or mentally deficient.

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      But for the creator of The Libs of Tiktok, it’s a day to celebrate 🥂

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        I think this is a direct effect of Trump’s behavior. It is ok now to openly celebrate the death of a teen. Also ok to openly follow someone who does this. There are so many people going confidently “yeah, i grab 'em by the pussy, so what?”, it’s really sickening.

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          No, it is not.

          Trump’s behavior and by extension theirs is the result of liberals not taking this shit seriously

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            Yes, also.

            They didn’t take it seriously, generally took too long to respond and when they responded, there were already 10 new things ( that were worse ) that had to be addressed.

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    This is exactly the outcome they (republicans, the police, Elon Musk, etc.) want.

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      Nah they will just claim religious persecution and “it will ruin their life” throw in them “fearing for their safety” being the right race and gender. At most they are looking at community service.

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      I think the system is going to suddenly find a lot of excuses not to do that. Hell I wouldn’t be surprised if the police suddenly decided they had no place enforcing adult laws in school and saying this is a learning moment…

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        I think the system is going to suddenly find a lot of excuses not to do that.

        I mean, they’re young girls and probably white so the justice system is going to do everything it can to avoid holding them accountable before you even get to it being a nonbinary victim in a red state. Even if they’re charged and convicted as adults I’d be shocked if they get worse than probation and maybe a suspended sentence at worst. Names withheld by media, of course.

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    Conservatism is a plague of oppression, violence and death. It always has been. There is no place in a modern society for conservatism.

    When you see your conservative neighbors, co-workers and relatives, remember they killed this innocent child. They did this.

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      Ancient Roman Conservatives (Optimates, cause of course) “Look when you lift their skirts, you find a Populare (Democrat). We need to bring back traditional values!”

      Since the days of yore, always about traditional fucking values.

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      I’m not going to aggressively confront my simple conservative acquaintances as if they themselves did this, but I do think it’s a moral obligation to root out and identify why our acquaintances support a regressive, fearful, and hateful brand of politics. Like any sale made, it has to be the customer’s choice, or at least the illusion of choice. You’ll never convert anyone to a more Leftist brand of looking at the world if your ideology seems aggressive or unhinged. We’re trying to make conservatism look less ideal than leftism.

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      So true. There must be no forgiveness, no tolerance, no acceptance. Conservatives must be purged from this planet. This is the ONLY way forward, if we want a society that is good for everybody.

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          So? That’s what I am saying. What are they saying in your opinion? To silently seethe at the conservatives while not doing anything?

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            You are mocking a call to violence in which there is none. They’re saying conservatism (the belief, the ideology) needs to die.

            Conservatives should be openly mocked and ridiculed for their cruelty and violence. They should be laughed out of office.

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              You are being entirely idealistic. You are saying things that sound nice to you without considering how realistic they are.

              You cannot attack an ideology without attacking the people who make up that ideology. They cannot be cleanly distinguished from each other.

              At some level you even realize this.

              Conservatives should be openly mocked and ridiculed for their cruelty and violence. They should be laughed out of office.

              This means attacking the people. You are talking about making conservatives social pariahs, having them lose their livelihoods and power.

              So yes, destroy conservatism, but if you don’t have the stomach to do everything that simple statement entails, get out of my way.

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                You cannot attack an ideology without attacking the people who make up that ideology. They cannot be cleanly distinguished from each other.

                Quit your bullshit. Dunking on shitty beliefs does not equate to killing or hurting people like you were suggesting.

                This means attacking the people.

                Good job moving the goal posts. First it was purging. Now it’s being made out to be social pariahs. Pick one, and quit equating scorn with violence.

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      “Owasso police issued a subsequent statement on 21 February to say that an autopsy indicated that Nex had not died as a result of trauma.” STFU

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        Ah yes. The totally normal spontaneous death of a 16 year old completely unrelated to the physical trauma suffered just before. You conservative apologists are always so fast to jump to conspiracy, why not now?

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          Reminds me of a bit from a web serial called Pale:

          “I was in my rights to weaken him.”

          “You shot the man in the head, you said,” Musser replied.

          “It left him very weak, yes. He died shortly after.”

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          Mostly I wanted to tell you drama queen fucks to stfu bout blaming half a nation.

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    Pro-life, until they arent what expected, then fuck those people. The conservative religious are very hateful.

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    This makes me sick to my stomach. This poor person just wanted to be themselves. Fuck our society, time to start over

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    All the panic from Right-Wing cultists has real danger for people. I’m so sorry that people failed Nex. I hope people will be held accountable.

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    Fuck all of these Shitty Republican Christians for killing this child.

    I hope every last one of these Republicans get jailed for this murder but we all know that no one will face any actual consequences for this fine example of Shitty Republican Christian love.

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    Direct result of the bathroom laws and other transphobic policies because it emboldens the most fucked up to act out and think they can get away with it (as they probably will)