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I was 3 when I attended my parents’ wedding. I guess I should note not my dad and birth mom.
I met my birth mom many years later. She stressed how she and my dad were briefly married when I was born, so I wasn’t a bastard, and that she gave birth in FL, not MI — the only home I remembered — so I wasn’t a damn Yankee. Like she did me some kindness in both those cases.
That was the attitude that led me to be quite happy with my circumstances — acting like I was in her debt over things I had no care over. So yeah, I attended the wedding of my dad and the only woman I’ll ever call mom.
I was around 20 years too late.
They didn’t attend mine either, as it happens, on the grounds that they too were “late” by then.
Hey, this almost exactly matches my situation. Neat.
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Whoa. At what point does a person think to themselves, “Maybe it’s me. Maybe I’m the problem.”?
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Jesus jumped up christ!!! What a glutton for punishment! I can not even fathom that… I was married once, and after my divorce, I thought “I will never do that again.”
My ex and I continued to co-parent, she got engaged and pregnant, then they split up. We continued to coparent, qnd eventually she came to me and confessed undying love to me and begged to get back together.
I told her we could try and work things out, but I would never get married again. So we tried and lo and behold a few months later she was pregnant with someome elses child.
Needless to say, each time she has begged to get back together in the 8 years since her 3rd child, i have declined.
I cant imagine marrying and divorcing her 3 MORE TIMES!
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Am I a bastard?
Yes.
I would love to, but I wasn’t born yet.
In a way I did: shotgun marriage, she was 4 months already
It happened 6 years before I was born, so no
I was the 3-year-old ring bearer.
In China where my parents are from, people aren’t supposed to have sex before marriage, so I couldn’t possibly have been conceived before the marriage/wedding. Typical conservatism lol
(Btw porn is illegal in like many area of the world, westerners are lucky to be able to enjoy… content… 🤭)
That’s right, it’s an issue in Catholicism too. That’s why my sister wasn’t conceived before marriage, she was just born a few months early 😉😉
They married ages before we were born. I attended my mother’s second marriage. I wasn’t invited to my father’s second marriage because his mistress was and is a fucking asshat.
My dad got remarried but I didn’t attend that. Didn’t see any point in honoring a ceremony that he already proved is meaningless.
Did he cheat on his first wife?
Cheated, secret other kid. The works!
Not their marriage to each other, but I went to my dad’s second wedding, when I was in my twenties. Nice guerrilla ceremony at an art museum
My dad didn’t have a wedding when he got remarried, but he invited me to be there when the papers were signed. Then he did it without telling me 🤷♀️ so “no” I guess. One day he was just like “oh yeah we got married yesterday”…
No, they married only once, and it was before my time.
But later, they attended my wedding.
No but I did when my mom got remarried
Samesies
