Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?

  • HollowV@lemmy.world
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    The ability to not give a fuck about what others think about them, showing people close to them that they care about them and tries to help out anyway that they can, showing appreciation when someone does something for them.

    I see these qualities in my (guy) friend which is why I had a crush on him. Also he kinda looks like Leon Kennedy sooo…👀

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        I told him that I liked him more than a friend a couple months ago. Ended in a friend-zone 💀 . We both agreed that it’s best for us to be just friends because of timing. He works a lot and does school full time, so he’s not gonna be able to prioritize me. I (still) find him attractive, but he helped me dodge a bullet in saving me from another heartbreak.

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    Throwing themselves at me sexually. If I’m not going to have to make a lot of effort for it the person gets way more attractive to me, even if they’re not someone I’d typically go for. Conversely I’ve lost interest in a lot of very attractive women when they made it clear they were playing hard to get or just weren’t very sexual in general.

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    2 days ago

    It is confidence. It is always always always confidence. Close the thread there’s your answer for everything.

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      But then you run into the dunning kruger effect. Way too many assholes and idiots with obscene amounts of it

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    Unapologetic intellectual curiosity! I absolutely love being around people who love learning new things and who get excited to find out more when they discover a new topic.
    It’s one of the first qualities that really stood out when I first met my husband - in a University lecture with 1000 people, he just nonchalantly sat down in the frontmost row because that’s where he could hear the professor the best and ask questions. No shyness or awkwardness about it, which I found incredibly inspiring for some reason! I usually hid in one of the back rows because I was massively overthinking everything and afraid that the professor might call me out when he sees me not paying attention.

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    I’m attracted to women with a more traditionally masculine personality or presentation. The helpers/protectors. Or non-binary. Bonus points if their whole Look is to deliberately intimidate strangers.

    TL;DR image basically this but in all black.

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    3 days ago

    Bravery. My wife she’s a revolutionary. She was on the street when they kicked out the dictator and they were shooting real bullets. I admire her

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    I’m going to be so shallow as to claim that if they look attractive, I find that instantly hot.

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    Understanding and compassion. Kindness. I’ve been with enough women in my time to be able to definitively say that the HOTTEST woman in the universe yet a total bitch would not be able to hold a candle to a homely kind hearted gal.